Dating limits

In relationships a limit is where you establish your personal space from another’s personal space-what is mine and what is yours. Even what is ours is a mutually agreed upon creation for what is perceived as appropriate, acceptable behavior in relationships for all parties.

Although many individualists may complain, act out and flaunt laws, they usually prefer them to the chaos and unpredictable consequences of not having them.Psychological limits include tolerance or intolerance for individual differences, feelings, thoughts, beliefs, choices, time alone, confidences and secrets.Where any two individuals set their boundaries is both an individual decision and a couple negotiation.Some just declare limits to be saying, “No” and meaning it.Disciplines of every imaginable kind help provide structured limits that enhance the control we have over our behavior.