Dating 3 months no commitment
(The Frisky) -- First thing one morning I got a text from one of my friends, the kind I get all too often: "Met my future husband last night!
" My response was my standard one: "Get back to me in three months." If I've learned one valuable thing from the dating whirligig I've been on for the last six years (give or take six months here or there), it's that you must wait at least three months before getting excited about the long-term possibilities of a new person.
The sex might be great, but if he believes in something that you can’t get behind or move past, it might not be worth it.
If you’re like me, your political preferences are tied to core pieces of your identity.
If he wants to date exclusively or hook up other people You might have serious feelings for each other but that doesn’t mean that you’re ready for commitment.
They say you are who you hang out with and if you don’t like his friends, it’s possible that at some point you might not like him either for similar reasons.
Your relationship with his bros is a big indicator of your relationship with your guy.
If his bad habits are forgivable If you spend a lot of time with a guy, you usually get clued in on some of his bad habits. Pay attention to these things within the first three months and decide whether you can deal with them or not.
Does he drink excessively when you go out to the point where he’s always blacked out? If his values and morals match your own I’ve pursued relationships outside of the three month period with guys who had shady values because I tried to convince myself that they would change, it would get better, or maybe I didn’t know the full picture.